We all have parents, whether they are still here on earth or they have passed on.  You may even be a parent yourself.  If you have issues with your parents and/or issues with your children…may you find peace in the learning of my recent experience.

My beautiful daughter had some dental work done to her teeth.  She called me to help her clear through some of the pain in her mouth.  As I asked her questions, I found out she was having issues with her mother-in-law. She shared what she was feeling and I continued to clear the energy causing her to have pain.  I got to a place where I said, ‘now it feels like there is pain from your childhood and it has to do with your mother.’  When I shared that, I asked her where she was feeling anything in her body.  She said the pain was in the root of the tooth the dentist was working on.

I feel it’s important for you to know I left my first marriage when the children were very young.  The children continued to live with their father and would stay with me once a month.  When I think back to what the children went through at that time, I couldn’t help but feel they must have some pain stored or locked up somewhere in their body mind and spirit. For my one daughter, there was pain in her teeth, gums and jaw area. It’s interesting that the area of pain was in the mouth and the ‘root’ of the tooth…the area that has to do with the spoken or not spoken words.

I could feel her energy clearing as we were talking.  I explained, her teeth and her mother-in-law were messengers inviting her to heal some issues with her mother.  I asked her to put her mother-in-law aside – look at what was bothering her about what she saw in the mother-in-law – feel it/heal it – then bring back the mother-in-law into the picture again.  All of a sudden my daughter wasn’t so bothered about her mother-in-law…not only that, the pain in her tooth had lessoned considerably. My daughter continued to clear issues around her mother, as well as being a mother herself.

Any time you have pain…doesn’t matter what it is…if you are wondering where your pain is coming from or why you would be experiencing pain at this time, look at what is going on in your life.  Look for the messengers and the messages in your pain.  PAIN GETS OUR ATTENTION.  What does it have to tell us?

Which messengers help us with what on our journey through life?  If we have a life lesson to walk through, will we find resolution by working with the person(s) who we perceived caused us the problems in the first place or will another ‘messenger’ show up to give us guidance? When we are ready to walk through or deal with our ‘stuff’, the Universe supports us.  Put another way…when our ‘stuff’ is in our face to deal with, it’s because we are ready for it and the messengers will be there to assist us in perfect ways for our own healing.

As parents, regardless if we are a mother or a father, we can feel at peace knowing our children will find their way and will heal through whatever they are called to walk through.  Their healing is about them and how they feel…not about us being a good or not good parent.

With our parents…the Universe will bring us the messengers that will assist us in healing the issues we perceive we have with our parents. Those messengers will push all the buttons we need pushed in order for us to move through our stuff, regardless if it is our parents or someone else.

So like my daughter, she was going through dental work, at the same time as having issues with her mother-in-law, at the same time as she healed some stuff from her childhood.  Is that just a fluke or is it divinely timed for my daughter’s healing.  You decide.

Sheila

We take that messenger called our body with us 24/7/365…yes absolutely everywhere we go.  Have you tried to physically go somewhere without your body?  I know that sounds odd to hear and it’s now about bringing that to our conscious mind.

Our body is communicating with us all the time. It lets us know when we are tired or feeling drained.  It lets us know when we are hiding or storing something. It lets us know when it’s time to rest or when our parts are giving out. Can we hear what your body has to say?  Our body will get our attention LIKE no other messenger will.

Consider this…let’s say we are experiencing some challenges at work.  Our boss isn’t supporting us with the proposed changes that are coming from head office.  It bothers us to have to go into work and ‘go at it alone’ without the support of our boss.  Day after day we feel drained when we get home.  All of a sudden we go to get out of our car and jar our back.  Now we can’t move.  The fact that we can’t move is definitely getting our attention.

Did you know if we have support type issues, those issues can eventually be communicated through our back in the form of back pain?  Does that mean we have a ‘bad back’ or does that mean our back is communicating something to us? Our reactions or our bothers can get our attention showing us we have some kind of message to look at…if we don’t get those messages through our ‘reactions or bothers’, we can wait until our body has some kind of pain or problem. That will for sure get our attention.

It has been my experience when we get our message in the ‘clearing process’ whether it’s in the things that bug us or the pain in our body, everything around us can then ‘right’ itself including the body.  Our body works with us, not against us.  Our body mind and spirit work so perfectly together communicating everything we need to know to move forward on our journey.

To show you how perfectly our physical body communicates with us…Sharon and I, are holding an ongoing telecall series focused specifically on the messages spoken through the physical body.  We will be clearing the blocked energy that is causing the pain or illness or disease or degeneration in your body…yes every part of your body we will be clearing.  You are invited to experience what that is and for you.  Happy day to you always…

Sheila Unique

Last year while we were visiting Jimmy’s mom in the hospital, a nurse came into the room.  Jimmy got talking to her about hunting.  In no time this nurse started to talk about how her boyfriend hunts so much in the year using a rifle and now wants to get a bow and arrow to hunt even more.  She continued to talk about all the hunting things he was doing getting louder and more agitated as she talked.  After a bit I said to her, ‘are you aware that bothers you?’ She so quickly replied, ‘I’m not bothered; I just think he is hunting too much.’

How many people in our lives rant and rave about things that are a huge issue and aren’t even aware there is a problem?  I was one of them! Before I learned about how my reactions changed when I used energy clearing, I was one of those people who didn’t think I had issues.  Oh how I have learned.

How do we know we have a problem?  The Universe is so perfect about helping us to know.  We know we have conflict when we are really bothered about something.  We can feel the intensity when we talk about our problem to friends or family.  ‘They did this… they are doing that…I can’t believe he keeps saying that…she never hears me when…’ and the story goes on.  It’s like we get ‘all worked up’ about it.  Have you ever experienced that?

Every time we share our stories with intensity and emotions…we are feeding the energy of that story.  If we say, ‘I just hate when they do that,’ the feeling of hate goes into the story.  Every time we talk about a body part with ‘not great energy’, we are sending that not great energy to our body part. If we say, ‘I hate what my butt looks like…grrrrr,’ where do you feel that energy goes?  Over time we will start to feel that ‘not great energy’ in the form of pain of some kind.  It would be like the body saying it’s time to deal with your stuff.

Do the things in our life have to get to the place where they cause us pain?  Maybe and maybe not.  The Universe is so perfect in giving us the messages we need to hear to help us move along on our journey.  Our journey is for us…our learning and growing.

Sheila

A couple of days later Sharon and I were chatting with his wife.  She said the next day her husband told her everything we had said made total sense except he wished he could feel the difference.  He explained that his hip still felt like it was shooting out the side!  His wife asked if the muscle relaxants he was taking were working.  He said no but he was taking them hoping they would change how he was feeling.

How many people do we know like this?  How many people are in pain of some kind, taking medication and still feeling the pain?  This is such a great example to show you something else about our energy and how Sharon and I work together.

Sharon makes a correction in the energy for the husband to ‘feel the changes’.  His energy was strong to feeling the pain but wasn’t strong to feeling the changes.  That might sound odd to hear.  When the conscious mind can’t feel the changes there still is a weakening effect in the energy somewhere.  When he identified what was still there we went into what was causing him to ‘not feel the changes’.

For me, some words came through.  When her husband said, ‘his hip still feels like it’s shooting out the side’…is that in fact a ‘physical thing’ the body can do?  Typically the hip doesn’t ‘shoot’ out the side.  Those words are explaining a ‘non-physical’ feeling.  It’s a different way of talking about what he was ‘feeling.’

Will ongoing medication clear up those non-physical type feelings?  Maybe and maybe not.

My friends, pain is only a messenger – pain gets our attention.  What message does it have for us?  Our messages may show up through our hips, through our illness or disease or even through our floaties in our eyes.  We are all getting messages.

Think about how we explain any pain we are feeling.  We can say, ‘my hip hurts’, or we can say, ‘it feels like my hip is shooting out the side.’  When we explain our pain from the point of view of ‘how it FEELS’…we will find our way to the underlying issue…which when cleared will result in no pain.  When we can see pain for what it is, how it is there to serve us, we will move beyond pain and find peace within ourselves.

Today when I checked in on the husband’s pain in his hip, he said, ‘it was feeling better but I still took a pill.’  As much as we energy workers want all the pain to go away in one session…life sometimes has a different plan.  Energetically speaking when we ‘lock’ feelings in our body, those feelings will eventually show up as pain.  Clearing the ‘locked up energy’ allows the energy to flow again.

As Saturday went on, I found my body starting to feel ‘sore’.  My arms and legs were feeling tired and my back didn’t feel like it could support my physical body.  I joked about feeling like a mac truck had hit me.  What was going on in my body?  I didn’t do anything that day (or the days before) that would cause me to feel ‘run over’…EXCEPT buy this new phone!  I hadn’t even used the phone yet!  Have you ever experienced that?

When I became aware of the pain type sensations I was feeling, I started to feel what it was showing me.  I thought about the IPhone and what it meant to me in my business and everyday life.  I put the two together and saw what my body was showing me!

I had the ‘world at my fingertips’ which opened the door to many possibilities for growth and many possibilities for ‘applications’….possibilities and applications which were not available with my flip phone. Do you think that would create a little fear or a reaction of some kind…you bet it did!  I now get my emails coming to my phone which means people can now connect with me wherever I go, so to speak.  If I need something it can be there at my fingertips.  On a spiritual level, this opened my energy field to something ‘even bigger’.  Oh interesting to see those words ‘even bigger’…I was physically feeling ‘huge/bloated/puffy’ since Saturday afternoon when I got the phone!  Those feelings have shifted now that I have been working on the ‘energy’ part of it.

Here is a perfect life example of what I share with you in these emails.  We feel something in our energy and if there is conflict of some kind, our bodies perfectly reflect that conflict back to us.  My body was ‘reacting’ and absolutely got my attention…I was feeling crappy.  What was causing me to feel what I was feeling?  As I sat on the couch later that day I knew the action I had taken to buy a new phone was a huge step for me and I was now ‘walking through’ the blocks in my energy that were causing me to feel that way!  Did I know I would feel like that when I went to buy the phone?  I did not!  I was aware that I would experience some kind of shift because it was taking me a long time to buy a new phone!

Our bodies are smart! When they have a message for us, they communicate perfectly what that message is.  If there is conflict in our energy, that conflict shows up through our reactions highlighting some kind of issue. Once we ‘clear’ those reactions from our energy field…the pain is gone.  Put another way, once we clear that conflict we will find peace within…and the body will right itself.

By becoming aware of the messages from all the messengers in your life…your body mind and spirit, you can easily live with empowerment as you recognize the Universe is working with you.  Have you experienced that?

As the day goes on you start to feel tired.  You’ve been doing a lot of thinking about your financial situation.  Here you are again 3 days before payday and there is nothing left!  Feels like you can’t get the money together to buy a new vehicle which you so desperately need. There is no extra money for a holiday.  More and more you are feeling drained!

Feeling tired and drained are ‘reactions’. Reactions are perfect in showing you inner conflict of some kind.  What is causing the inner conflict – problem or life issue?

What is the difference between an everyday problem and a life issue? Are they the same thing?

Using the above example with money, problems are more specific type things you deal with in your day to day life. They could be things like the moment you hold cash in your hands it’s spent or gone…having to borrow a few dollars before payday – then paying it back on payday…deciding on where to eat based on your bank account balance. Problems could be a phase you are going through like having a hard time securing a loan or arguing about what to buy.

Life issues around money or finances tend to be more general – ongoing issues that seem to be around forever. Examples of this could be living behind the excuse of never having any money to do anything…feeling like you ‘never have enough’…always taking care of everyone else but yourself.

Behind the day to day problems you will find your ‘issues’!

Money issues give you many problems to walk through. Those problems won’t be the ‘money.’ Look past the ‘money’ and see what the issue is. It’s in highlighting the issue – in shifting your perception, that you will move through it and experience huge growth within yourself.  You will experience feeling more empowered with money as opposed to being bothered about it every waking day.

Looking at this from a more ‘purposeful’ outlook, if you are on this earth to ‘walk through’ your life issues around money, ‘stuff around money’ will be put before you.  Through that ‘stuff’ you will come to find your own truth of what money is for you!

Money is such a broad word which people give a lot of power to! If you give ‘power’ to money – that ‘almighty dollar’ and you are finding your truth about what you come to know money to be…it will be through your day to day life experiences that you learn and grow.

Problems or life issues…see them for what they are!

What purpose do those ‘things you don’t like’ have for you?  What purpose do the people, things and situations in your life serve?

Consider this…everything that bothers you in your life is there for your learning and growing.  Your life lessons are for your learning and growing. As you become aware of the purpose those lessons serve, you are on your way to feeling more empowered. It’s like you start to ‘work with it’ as opposed to ‘work against it’.  Life is magical. The Universe is always working for you.  Your lessons in life will unfold for you in magical ways….ways that only the Universe could create specifically for you (no one else).

Is it about ‘changing’ everything till you like it…that could take forever!!!  Is it about energetically clearing the ‘reactions’ in whatever it is you don’t like…allowing everything to ‘just be’.  May be worth a try….brings about immediate changes in your reactions!

What results, is you now come from a place where you no longer react like you do…and everything magically ‘rights’ itself.  You bet it is 100% possible for you!

Where can you go from here?

It was something to watch how her story had created such unrest in the family. The children came to believe her story and had so much anger towards their dad for what they learned he had done. The story wasn’t even true. The unrest caused all kinds of problems – body mind and spirit – for everyone involved. Anger and unrest are reactions. Reactions highlight an underlying issue.

Do you ever get ‘lost’ in someone’s story or drama? Are people lost in your story or drama?  It can be really easy to do, especially if it is someone close to you.

Energetically speaking, when we hear people talking about what they feel happened or what they believe caused the problem, most people tend to believe whatever is shared.  People will say, ‘I have a headache because I ate too much chocolate.’ ‘I didn’t get the job because the boss likes the other person more.’ ‘We didn’t get the house because the loan’s officer doesn’t like to deal with women.’  Whatever the story is – is it the truth?

When you are ‘lost’ in the story/drama, and it doesn’t matter what it is, there is an aspect of you that isn’t found.  The daughters in the movie literally lost themselves in the anger the mother was experiencing. The daughters were no longer free to express themselves because of the drama the mother put everyone through…resulting in their addictions and health concerns. Have you ever experienced something like that…doesn’t matter what age?

How does energy play a part in all of this?  What you feel about something affects what you say and do!  What you feel affects your health and peace of mind.

Consider this….when someone first meets a person they know nothing about, they tend to approach this person with an open mind, so to speak. If they find out things about that person before they meet them – like how that person manipulates others or how they can be conceited – they approach the person for the first time with that information in mind. Will they treat that new person any differently? What do you feel?

Relationships are so interesting; they offer many opportunities to learn and grow.  When you are lost….the journey becomes about finding your Self again. It won’t be about anyone else but you and your learning. On some level we are all finding the truth of who and what we are.

I got so caught up in all the stuff about my dad and his smoking that I literally lost focus of what we were doing together as a family.

I used to talk about how smoking creates an energetic screen around the person smoking. As they smoke, a screen is there making it hard to see things clearly about themselves.  This is what I saw in the revelation.  The screen goes both ways!  If my dad is creating a so called screen with his smoking, if I have an issue with his smoking then I am creating a screen in how I am seeing him.  Am I seeing him for who he is or am I seeing him as someone with all kinds of bad habits?  When I cleared my energy around my issue with smoking…clearing PAST his smoking…all I saw was this perfect dad who like everyone else only wants to love and be loved in return. What a huge gift he gave me. I for sure see smoking very differently now.

When you think back to the past week over the Christmas season, what was something that caused you to be bothered?  My issue had to do with smoking…was there something that caused you to be bothered creating a screen for you?  It could have been different habits that you may find offensive, like drinking, overeating, drugs, etc; different things, like not getting presents from your parents, your family not showing up for supper or how no one helped you clean up.  Instead of the word smoking, substitute the something you got caught up in, which took you to a place of not feeling good.

When you look PAST the something you got caught up in, what is left?

Your thoughts precede your feelings.  Your thoughts determine where you are or where you are not in any moment of time.  What do I mean by that?

There is a difference between thoughts and thinking.  Thinking – consider this…in this present moment, if someone came up to you and asked you to do something, you would think about whether or not you would do it.  The process majority of people go through involves thinking about the request, making a decision or saying they will ‘think about it’.  Thinking comes from the mind and the mind isn’t always acting in your best interests.

If your mind isn’t always acting in your best interests, how do feelings come into play?  Going back to the example of someone coming up to you asking you to do something, you think about the request, then you stop thinking about it and feel if what they asked is something you want to do.  Does it feel right to you?  This can take seconds to decide in the moment based on how you feel about doing or not doing what they ask.

Let’s go in a different direction now.  Thoughts – your thoughts about the problems going on at work or thoughts about not wanting to talk to your mom or dad or thoughts about not having enough money to pay your bills.  Where are those kinds of thoughts taking you? Are you still in the present moment or are you off somewhere worrying or wondering?

When you think and think and think about something that’s not there, so to speak, you are creating a picture and your ‘feelings’ will be reflected based on those thoughts.

You see, your thoughts can take you to a place of not feeling great or feeling bothered…and your thoughts can take you to a place of non-reaction or being at peace within yourself.  There is no judgement, no right or wrong. Becoming aware of your thoughts and/or thinking is a wonderful place to start because everyone is learning and growing with every moment.

When you think, you can think and go into a thinking loop of problem after problem taking into account the ‘what if’s’ and the ‘I should have’s’ OR you can think for seconds, stop thinking and move into a place of feeling if something is right for you.  Then there is one more option of just experiencing every moment without having to think at all.  Is that where we are headed….hummm?

What do you feel brings about a more peaceful present moment?